Dairy State Homestead: Get Off Your Duff edition


Craig clued me in to a new to-do list program called Trello to help me get more organized. (I think I’m a lost cause…. Mom doesn’t call me “Hurricane Diana” for nothing!)

Instead of starting with the stuff I REALLY need to do, like, ummmm… WORK, I started making a list of blog post ideas.

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One down!

Every attempt I’ve ever made at online listmaking, save my grocery list, always ends up as the Island of Misfit Tasks I Forgot I Needed To Do Because They Were In A New Program I Forgot I Signed Up For. Let’s see if I can use Trello for longer than it takes me to set up.

Any tips for someone as hopelessly disorganized as me?

 


Trail blazer

At the ripe old age of 5 months, B is already no stranger to the outdoors.

She went on her first hike when she was two weeks old…

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… and her first snowshoeing expedition at 2 months. (Let the record show she spent half the time crying and I had to nurse her on the trail. Good times.)

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The last time we were out snowshoeing (and let’s hope it’s the last, SPRING WHERE ARE YOU?!?!) a skier we passed called me a “one in a million mom.” Cue the awwwwwwwww.

I just ran across an article in The Atlantic about how nature resets our minds and bodies. The presence of nature, the article says, buffers kids against the stressors of man-made environments.

Urban environments are draining because they force us to direct our attention to specific tasks (e.g., avoiding the onslaught of traffic) and grab our attention dynamically, compelling us to “look here!” before telling us to instead “look over there!” These demands are draining — and they’re also absent in natural environments. Forests, streams, rivers, lakes, and oceans demand very little from us, though they’re still engaging, ever changing, and attention-grabbing.

This comes as no surprise considering how great I feel after a day on the trail, river, or path, but it’s interesting to see the research to back it up. I credit a semester trekking through the Costa Rican rainforest with curing me of an eating disorder, depression, and a horrible pizza face. Powerful stuff! I’m glad to know that when I strap B. into her baby backpack and hit the road, I can feel confident that I’m not only making myself a better mom, I’m helping her be a healthier baby.

 

 


Hoppy Easter!

Corny headline, I know, but I’ve got an almost-five-month old — what do you expect?

 

 

I went on a crazy baby craft bender on Friday night, and in the carnage was this bunny hat (idea ripped off from The Red Kitchen) The post describes making the hat as “mega easy,” and yes indeed it was. I used an old long underwear shirt of mine that… ahem… seems to have shrunk in the wash. For a pattern, I traced a hat of B.’s that’s getting too small and just added a little extra all the way around plus some ear-shaped appendages. For the ultimate in laziness I used the bottom hem of the shirt as the bottom hem of the hat. The original calls for polyfil to stuff in the ears, but I didn’t have any and it was 10 p.m. so I chopped up some old mesh curtains from Ikea that I’ve been hanging onto for four years (since deciding they looked like crap in our dining room) and that seemed to do the trick. Warm head, cute baby, happy momma! Now that Easter’s over I was thinking I could just unstuff the ears and tie them into a knot and have a spring hat for that adorable noggin. Because, you know, why waste 10 minutes’ worth of effort..

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 


The new crib

I read the blog Young House Love religiously. Like, if anyone at work were to check my web browsing history they’d notice that every day around 9 am and 1:30 pm I check to see if they’ve posted the day’s post yet… Yup, it’s like crack. (You won’t tell, right?)

Luckily for me — and not so luckily for Craig, ha — they have a two-year-old daughter so they’ve been through the whole baby thing already. Which means I can peek at their archives to see how they’ve handled the various baby gear dilemmas I’ve run into so far (and any other suggestions their readers, which number more than my five, might have).

They landed on a sweet looking Baby Mod crib from Wal-Mart (surprise!) for an affordable all-wood option. Apparently pressed wood  and MDF can be held together by formaldehyde. Not good. But many commenters had great luck with an even more affordable-yet-modern looking wood crib from Ikea: the Gulliver. At less than half the price of the Baby Mod, while the frame and slats are made of sturdy solid wood, there is a fiberboard base.  But we talked about it and decided that if we got the cheaper crib we could splurge on the organic cotton and wool mattress of my dreams. Well, one that we hope will give the Lima Bean many happy dream-filled nights to come. (While I’m usually all about buying furniture off of Craigslist, with the ever-changing safety standards of cribs it seemed safest to buy a new one.)

 

 

I’m sure this is a sign of the paranoid mom I’m going to become, but it just makes me feel better knowing my sweet lil’ babe will be sleeping on something chemical free. All mattresses in the U.S. must be flame retardant — which means they’re treated with chemicals with a questionable safety record (see this recent story in the New York Times for a little background on flame retardants and this investigative series in the Chicago Tribune.) Just buying an organic mattress doesn’t save you from the chemicals. The key is to have one made with wool, which is a natural flame retardant and therefore exempts the mattress from the (scary) chemical onslaught.

So, well, let me tell you these cotton/wool mattresses are not as cheap as their regular brethren (or even as plain old organic cotton mattresses). But after much research I found a reasonable option at Organic Grace, which, with a coupon code I found on mothering.com, only set us back $250. And when I say set “us” back, I mean Craig’s mom, who very graciously bought her new grandbaby’s crib and mattress. (Thank you so much, Pat!)

A few photos for ya to see what the whole shebang looks like so far (you get a peek at the new window coverings we made, which I’ll tell you about soon!).

 

 

 

We moved one of the recliners upstairs for some comfy nighttime feedings, and the little nightstand next to it I found at the curb mart. It had a matching dresser too, but alas that was too heavy to lug home on a 10 pm walk…

So, how many of you think I’m going to turn even nuttier once the Lima Bean arrives? Any tips on how to stop myself from becoming a basket case about every possible owie? Or how to arrange furniture in a teeny tiny nursery with lots of odd angles?


Nursery, part deux

For about a year, I’ve been living in some sort of fantasy world where I buy vintage furniture pieces and paint them. First it was winter that got in my way, then it was pregnancy — yeah, I’m full of excuses. But this weekend I strongarmed sweetalked Craig into acting as my refinishing surrogate and help me update a dresser for the nursery.

Isn’t she lovely?

 

The dresser was actually Craig’s when he was a boy and had been sitting in the basement at his mom’s house for years (it still has that Nickels basement scent). She was looking to get rid of some furniture and we are now in need of some, so it was a win-win for everyone. Especially us. Here’s how it looked back in the day (well, technically, just the day before):

I love how the new paint job modernizes the old honey stain, like a great dye job on a mousey, starting-to-gray mop of hair (not that I’d know anything about that..)

The whole process was relatively simple, at least from where I was standing a good 15 feet away. I helped with the first part — unscrewing the knobs and giving the drawer faces a quick swipe with sandpaper. One of the knobs was stuck on, as if it had been glued, so I taped around that one with painters tape so it would stay brown like the rest of them. Then Craig took over with priming and painting (we used the Zinsser primer and white paint we’d used on the kitchen shelf project we did right before I found out I was pregnant, so since they weren’t no-VOC I thought it best to bow out of this part of the project).

I made myself feel useful and grilled us up some corn.

Three coats later and Craig put the drawers in the garage to dry overnight. The next morning, I screwed in the knobs and vacuumed out the spider webs, then we hauled all of the pieces upstairs into our newly painted nursery. I love it with the vintage dog lamp on top (another score out of the Nickels family basement), and now I can’t wait to stuff it full of cloth diapers and itty bitty clothes! Here’s another look so you don’t have to scroll up:

Anyone else loving two-toned pieces lately, or dig any buried treasure out of a basement? What is that basement smell, anyhow?


Return of the robin’s nest

Last summer, our front yard was taken over by robins. Well, more specifically, the light above our front door was. A robin built a nest there and like a squatter laid claim to the rest of our property, eyeing us up from a perch on the crabapple tree, dive-bombing us should we dare try to get into a car parked in the driveway, hovering on the other side of our glass door if we tried to exit. One night, Lucy caught one of the chicks and the rest of the robin clan lined up on some cable wires to chastise her, chirping angrily and flying within inches of her back while she obliviously sniffed around for more little birdies to play with. (I’m ashamed to admit, Craig and I stood in the safety of the sunroom and watched the whole thing go down.)

Well, fast forward a year and we’ve got more robin’s nest — but this time, by choice.

 

We took advantage of the beautiful weather over the weekend and painted the nursery a shade called “robin’s nest” by Benjamin Moore (color matched to Olympic no-VOC paint since the nearest store that sells BM’s Natura line — its no-VOC version — is more than half an hour away). The newest member of the homestead is due to arrive a little less than three months from now, so in a way it feels early to get ‘er done. But since I can still occasionally smell fumes from the last room we painted over a year ago, we wanted to leave plenty of time for the room to air out — and I’m sure we’ll have plenty of last minute things to keep us busy as we get closer.

Because Craig and I are not the types to make snap decisions… or any decisions, for that matter… we’ve been debating this whole paint color selection for months. The room, which for the past year or so had been our office, was a horrid shade of khaki bequeathed to us by the previous owners of the house. We were leaning toward painting it gray and then having yellow accents, but we have two greige rooms upstairs (and of course neither is the same shade) along with a lavender-gray colored hallway so we thought introducing one more gray into the mix would be a little too much. Besides, when else can we go all out and paint a room a fun color? Our last attempt at that was a big bright green fail, so we were excited, and scared, to try again.

We noticed that several of the nurseries I’ve pinned on Pinterest were aqua, so I researched (surprise) to see which shades people had success with and ended up with four possibilities.  I bought $3 sample pots of each at Lowe’s so we could see which one we liked best:

The computer screen doesn’t do them justice, though they were awfully similar. We were intrigued by the Whythe blue — supposedly, it’s the color used in Don Draper’s house in Mad Men — but it seemed a little too moody for a nursery. (A future dining room, perhaps?) We’d read such great things about robin’s nest (I got Craig involved in all of this over-researching) that we decided to go for it. It’s one of those chameleon colors that changes with the light, kinda like my crazy eyes. A little more green in sunlight, a little more blue in artificial light. I love, love, love it.

My doctor had already given me the go-ahead to paint, so I helped Craig out with the first coat. I was surprised that what I found unbearably smelly wasn’t the paint, but the painters tape. Ewww. In fact, when we got to the second coat I asked Craig if he’d be able to do it himself because the tape smell was just too much for me, and of course since he is the Best Husband Ever (right dear?), he obliged. In the meantime I finished up another nursery project I’ll tell you about soon…

So there you have it, how we actually decided on a color for the nursery and survived to tell about it. What do you think? Anyone have any tips for moving beyond paint paralysis?


Weekend in review

3 half-pints rhubarb ginger jam

3 half-pints Meyer lemon curd

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1 lb frozen rhubarb

1 lb frozen radish greens

Enough mesclun, arugula, and spinach harvested that we’re going to turn into a salad

Acorn squash, pattypan squash, and muskmelons planted

Patio furniture rearranged

6 flower pots planted

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Window boxes replanted

Stones removed from backyard flower beds

Edging fixed on herb garden

Lawn mowed

Lawn fertilized

Diana and Craig exhausted


Spring has sprung

My mother-in-law came to visit this weekend to celebrate her birthday. She somehow managed to sleep until 8:30 (!), while poor me was out of bed two hours earlier. Because I’m an old lady who can’t sleep in.

So in order to not wake up her dog, who has hardwoodfloorophobia and whined the entire visit, I spent those two hours playing in the garden. I cleared out all of the coneflowers I’d left for the birds to nibble at and all of the rest of the foliage I’d been too lazy to do anything about in the fall.

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Here’s what I unearthed….

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Chives, oregano, and garlic.

Also

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Flowers. Black-eyed Susan’s, coneflowers, even hostas, which are usually the last to peek out of the ground.

Our maple tree is leafing out, and our lilacs are about to start flowering.

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Oh, and one of my coworkers told me she heard it is supposed to snow next week. Do I need to worry about these beauties?

Happy birthday Pat!

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For the love of Mason jars

My legion of fans sister asked me about my new kitchen shelves, and I realized with all the time I’ve been spending in the garden lately I forgot to post the finished pictures! Take a look:

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So pretty, right? It makes me smile just looking at the photos. I’ve long had an obsession with Mason jars o’ food, and now I get to share it with the world (or at least the people who come over to my house). Love.

Since the shelves are right above our coffee pot, I also put our coffee tins and assortment of coffee contraptions on the shelves to mix things up. The jars that look like they belong in a candy store are from Hobby Lobby on sale for $2.50.

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You’d think this would have opened up a bunch of cupboard space, but with a little reshuffling they’re all full again — only now I can actually see all the food we have since it’s not all just thrown in a heap. Yay, organization!

Anyone else do any home projects recently?


Thinking of the outside box

Craig had to work all weekend, so guess who I suckered into a home improvement project?

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Thanks Mom and Dad!

This was a barter in exchange for a netbook we never used (too slow to do work on, but perfect for Mom to cruise the net). I think I won out in this deal. They both worked their tails off.

I wanted to put in two new vegetable garden beds, but in order to do that, we needed to move the two existing ones so they’d look logical in the yard. Dad tried to talk me into some alternative layouts to cut down on the work (smart guy), but in the end I decided it would be best to not be lazy and line them all up along the driveway as I’d originally planned.

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I had purchased some 6-foot cedar boards to make the boxes (I wanted two 3×6 beds), so first Dad cut a couple of boards in half with our recently inherited table saw.

Then he screwed them together while Mom held. They make a good team.

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Dad worked on leveling them, squaring them, and pounding in some stakes to hold them in place…

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…while Mom and I started digging out the soil from the old beds. Guess what we found?

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Taters!

Then we put a layer of newspaper into the new beds to kill the grass underneath and started shoveling on the soil we’d just dug out. Dad took apart the old beds and moved them into formation with the new ones and then we put newspaper and soil in those too. If that makes sense. The ole’ switcheroo.

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At the end of the day (as in, at sunset), here’s what we ended up with.

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A one-screw-gun salute to my new boxes. The weather is so beautiful right now and I can’t wait to get planting!

Anyone else getting their gardening groove on?